Goodnight sweet Monday

Corbett | June 21, 2004 11:16 PM

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Very sad day here at the Wall residence. Monday, our family cat member, loyal and loving colleague, who has been with us for over 11 years, died of kidney complications.

I knew something was wrong when I stepped into the kitchen to say hi to the cats, and she immediately called out to tell me, "I don't feel well. Come and help." If you've lived with animals for many years, you know they can communicate very clearly.

I found her soiled in wetness, and had seen the same thing with sick elderly people. She was very embarassed and uncomfortable, so I took her out into the sun to sponge her off, and let her dry. She couldn't walk very well, but labored to walk away. She hates the outside. Terrified of it. So I knew she had her mind set on finding a place to go and die. Cats want to be in a quiet place away from people and other animals when their time comes. She knew it was coming.

I called Irene down to comfort her, and we decided to try to find a vet anyway. As Irene was getting ready, calling around to find a vet open on Sunday, I sat with her on the porch talking to her, and petting her. Her eyes were still very bright and green, and I could she that she wasn't in pain. With considerable effort, she raised her head high to reach my nose, touched it, and with her unique cat language told me in that touch that she was not scared, just very tired. She tucked her head firmly under her arm, and I was sure that was it. Just then, Irene stepped out the front door, and Monday immediately sparkled for a few minutes. We put her on our lap, and drove down the mountain while she curiously enjoyed the ride, watching the trees and the blue sky. She normally hates the car, and is terrified of going anywhere. This time she was just calm, quiet, and curious.

We found a vet, and he confirmed that it was kidney problems. She spent the night for observation, but didn't make it through the night. Last night we closed the restaurant, picked up her body, and held a little ceremony in our backyard with the whole family, Tiff, Irene, me, Cho Cho, and Chaplin. Irene wanted her buried in something pretty and white, not just a towel, so we wrapped her in one of Irene's cute white dresses, so she could feel pretty. The touching and sad part was that before we placed her in the ground, her pretty green eyes opened a bit and shed a tear. I closed her eyes, gave her one last scratch behind the ears, and placed her food and water bowl with her so she wouldn't be hungry. We placed some flowers on her, buried her, and lit a candle to show her the way.

Goodnight sweet Monday. You came to us on a Monday, and left us on a Monday. Sweet dreams.


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Maoman

June 22, 2004 12:35 PM

My condolences on Monday's passing. I have two cats, Mitch & Babs, that have been with me for over 7 years, so I know how attached one gets to the silly creatures. I imagine I'll be pretty choked up when their time comes...

BTW, Poagao's cat just passed away too.


corbett

June 22, 2004 1:16 PM

Yeah, you get attached to the living things around you. Part of being human I guess. Thanks.


Christian

June 23, 2004 12:27 AM

My condolonces, she was a good one!
/c


Mark in San Francisco

June 23, 2004 7:47 AM

Hi!
I read your blog here and there...I have had cats myself..I love them...they are the most loving creatures with soft spoken personalities. Cats don't give love generically like dogs, they wait till they know youa re trustworthy...but when they give in, their love is so pure! I feel your pain. I have been there also. The best advice i can give, is that go out and get a new kitten...it helps so much. It's not a replacement, you can never replace. But the old friend would want that...he would want you to be happy an dshare your love with a new kitten. They have amazing ability to make ANY human smile! :) I hope you will feel better soon!


Maoman

June 25, 2004 10:17 PM

Probably much too early to even think about a new kitten, but just in case...

http://forumosa.com/taiwan/viewtopic.php?p=194302#194302


sunny

June 25, 2004 11:24 PM

My condolences. I can't relate very well to the grief because I'm not a pet person but I've seen my daughter's face each time she loses a pet and I know that the pain can be hard to bear.


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